I Agree With You, Beth, But The Thing Is:

Sometimes you take a job in another state because you thought it would be best for you and would be temporary or whatever and then you buy a house because you thought it would be an investment but then the job goes pear-shaped and the economy collapses and you can't sell your house without losing a ridiculous amount of money and then you get a job as a professor and you really like it so it seems crazy to throw that away but still you feel like a man out of place in his own life a lot of the time.